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Now Hiring: Director of Children, Youth, and Family Ministries

October 28, 2021 by St. George's 2 Comments

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Director of Children, Youth, and Family Ministries:
Staff Job Description

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St. George’s Episcopal Church
Located in downtown Fredericksburg, Virginia along the Rappahannock River, St. George’s Episcopal Church is a vibrant and inclusive congregation of over 1,000 members committed to welcoming all into Christian community. Members and visitors alike delight in worshiping God both inside and outside of their four walls. The congregation is a key player in the local community through feeding ministries of the church and ecumenical engagement in the larger Fredericksburg area. St. George’s is openly affirming of the LGBTQIA+ community and seeks to be a welcoming and inclusive community. St. George’s is known for their superb music, diverse liturgical styles of worship, educational programming for all ages, and outreach ministries to the city and beyond. The parish is currently searching for a new staff person to join their team.

Position Overview
The Director of Children, Youth, and Family Ministries (DCYFM) will provide vision, dynamic leadership and oversight to the children, youth and family ministries, nursery through twelfth grade, at St. George’s Episcopal Church. This position equips volunteer lay leaders to nurture the spiritual growth and development of children, youth and their families, to build a thriving parish community rooted in our faith, characterized by belonging, inclusion and service. Current children’s ministry offerings include Montessori-based Sunday morning Christian formation, nursery care, baptism and baptismal preparation (in collaboration with clergy), worship involvement, and preschool partnership. Current youth ministry offerings include: Sunday morning Christian formation, Sunday evening youth group, Confirmation, local service opportunities, mission trips and retreats, participation in Diocesan events, and worship leadership including acolytes. St. George’s seeks to expand upon current family and parent fellowship and formation opportunities.

Key Responsibilities

  • Collaborate on creating a comprehensive vision for our Children, Youth and Family Ministries with clergy and other key stakeholders and align programs to the vision;
  • Share the Good News of God’s love through planning and organizing an annual calendar of regular, engaging and creative children and youth formation activities;
  • Promote the development and growth of lay leaders, including teachers and commission members, to lead children, youth and family ministries;
  • Equip and build relationships with adult caregivers as primary faith-builders in children and youth families and build community among families;
  • Coordinate regular visits to St. George’s preschool by clergy and staff to build relationship through formation and pastoral connection;
  • Establish and implement systems of pastoral care for children, youth and their families, in collaboration with clergy, lay leaders, and other professionals;
  • Communicate children and youth ministry formation activities (including acolyte ministry), events and opportunities to serve, with children, youth, their families, and church staff through both targeted and broad communication channels (website, bulletin, emails, social media, newsletters, etc.);
  • Collaborate with the clergy to ensure the inclusion of children and youth in worship;
  • Collaborate closely with the Children’s Music Director;
  • Maintain a database of children, youth, their caregivers and teachers;
  • Manage budget needs for each area of ministry in collaboration with supervisor, vestry and commission leaders;
  • Provide oversight to nursery ministry, including staffing, regular cleaning and caregiver engagement;
  • Participate regularly in staff meetings and maintain open lines of communication with staff and clergy, advocating for children, youth and families in parish-wide discussion;
  • Attend and actively support worship and fellowship opportunities geared at preschool, children, youth and their families;
  • Network in the community, with other churches, in the Diocese and in the larger Christian formation community to develop a mutual resource base of children, youth and family expertise;
  • Develop and implement effective safety measures (e.g. fire plans, Covid protocols), sexual misconduct and abuse prevention church practices and policies for all who work with children and youth at St. George’s, in collaboration with the church staff and Vestry.

Reporting Structure and Position Classification
The DCYFM reports directly to the Associate Rector. This is a full-time (40+ hours per week) exempt position, primarily working Sunday through Thursday, with weekend and evening work, as well as some travel. Adequate comp time will be provided in the case of overnight travel.

Required Qualifications

  • A Bachelor’s Degree or the equivalent;
  • Minimum 3-5 years paid ministry experience;
  • Deep and thoughtful Christian faith and love for the Episcopal tradition;
  • Training or willingness to receive training in children and youth formation curricula;
  • Experience with and passion for working with children, youth and their families;
  • Organizational and administrative skills for program and team management;
  • Strong oral and written communication skills, and comfort with social media and communication platforms.

Preferred Qualifications

  • Previous training or experience with Godly Play or Catechesis of the Good Shepherd;
  • Continued education in a related field of study (youth ministry, Christian formation, spiritual direction or practice, etc.)
  • Training or education in human development and learning

True to our commitment to racial justice and LGBTQIA+ inclusion, people of color, and queer-identifying individuals are highly encouraged to apply. Compensation is commensurate with experience and comparable Episcopal positions including salary and benefits. St. George’s is open to considering candidates who are lay, ordained, or graduating seminary.

Qualified applicants are invited to share a resume and cover letter with Martha Whitesides.

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In-person Worship Guidelines

March 31, 2021 by St. George's Leave a Comment

We are excited to worship together in-person again! Our worship time will look and feel a bit different. Below is some helpful information and instructions so we can all come together safely.

If you have a question, please contact the church office or ask one of our ushers at the service.

Update – May 12, 2022:

Masks required for the 9 am Sunday worship service. This service typically has our highest attendance and also many families with young children who are not old enough to be vaccinated.

Masks are highly recommended (especially while singing) at our other worship services.

General:

  • Worship from home if you are ill, experiencing any symptoms of COVID-19, are a caregiver for someone who is ill, or have been in contact with someone with COVID-19 in the last 14 days
  • Use hand sanitizer (available at hand sanitizer stations)
  • Follow instructions from ushers and greeters

Worship:

  • Digital bulletins (via QR code) available to view on your tablet or mobile phone. We will have a limited number of hard copy bulletins available.
  • Ushers will direct you to a pew / seat. We seat people from front to back. This helps us maximize the number of people we can seat and minimize path crossings.
  • You can “pass the peace” by waving to others instead of shaking hands
  • Offering baskets are not passed during the service. Instead, they are in a designated spot for you to place your gifts before or after the service. Ushers will point them out to you.

Communion:

  • Ushers will invite you forward to receive the Body of Christ (just the bread, not the wine)
  • Use the hand sanitizer available prior to receiving.
  • Maintain social distancing
  • Clergy will drop a wafer in your hands without making contact. Please wait to consume it until you are back at your seat. You may remove your mask briefly to consume the wafer.

Dismissal:

  • Please wait for an usher to dismiss your pew / row.
  • If seated in a pew, please close the door behind you so that it can be sanitized afterward.
  • Maintain social distancing and please avoid gathering in groups
  • Go in peace to love and serve the Lord!

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Christmas 2020 Gratitude Offerings

January 5, 2021 by St. George's Leave a Comment

300th_DoorsThank you to all who offered financial gifts in celebration of God’s blessings! We included the names of those who gave and their specified honorees in our Christmas Eve and Christmas Day service leaflets. Since we have received additional gifts after the leaflets were published, we are including the names here. Please join us in celebrating and offering thanks for these gifts, the generosity of those who have given, and the noted honorees.

This list will continue to be updated as we receive more gifts. New additions to the list are in italics.

List Updated: 1/5/2021

In Loving Memory of:

  • Our loved ones by Chuck and Linda Amos
  • Rose and John Alston by Michael Alston and Michele Prout Alston
  • Alexandra Apperson and Robert Randall Apperson by Jack Apperson
  • Herbert and Sue Miller, Curtis and Virginia Backus Jr. by Barbara and Curtis Backus
  • Vincent Blasco by Susan Blasco
  • Bob Bradley by MJ Bradley
  • Dr. H. H. Braxton, Anne Grimm Braxton, John Meneely Galway, and Grace Marshall Galway by Harrison and Gail Braxton
  • Howard Burns by Kit Burns
  • Mr. and Mrs. John H. Coker, Sr. and Mr. and Mrs. Charles C. Chesnut by John and Linda Coker
  • Our parents John and Joyce Creasy, Vern and Mary Jeanne Newberry by Jack and Donna Creasy
  • Francis and Lillian Nuckles and the victims of COVID 19 by Nancy and Steve Cronk
  • Mr. and Mrs. John M. Garnett by Judy Dunnington
  • Shawn Endler by Avery, Olivia and Anne Carey
  • Barbara Clark and Bill Davis by Pat Davis and Teri Clark
  • Lawrence J. and Rosemary Duffee by Larry, Suzy, and Voga Duffee
  • Harriet P. Modersohn By Scott and Mary Ellsworth
  • Our parents by Marilyn and Jack Farrington
  • Janet Fray by Mike Fray
  • My parents, Robert Brodie Graham and Norma Rose Graham by John Graham
  • Mark Ricke by Stephanie and Jason Graham
  • Loved ones by Lewis and Susan Graves
  • Josh Hardy by Ira and Nicole Grinnan, Jr.
  • Loved Ones by Lucy and Wayne Harman
  • Charles M. (Pete) Hearn and Orrick F. Johnson, Sr. by Martha Hearn
  • William L. and Lucy D. Heartwell by Alison Heartwell
  • Our grandfathers, Ed Horger and Richard Hinkebein by Jordan and Chris Hinkebein
  • Carvel and Ruby Montague by Cinderella and Michael Hodgkin
  • Michael Kole by Marcia Kole
  • Wayne Himes, Faye Johnson, and Peggy Cropp  by Brandon Johnson
  • William O. Schwartz and Sue C. Lang by Julie and Bob Lang
  • Dorothyjean Jamieson by Eleanor Ledoux
  • Harald Loch and Walter Perdue by Laurel and Achim Loch
  • Mary Shortall by the Maxfields
  • Loved ones by Jan and Tom Meredith
  • Pamela Miller-Richards by Guy and Barbara Miller-Richards
  • David L. Mork by Mary Mork
  • Our mothers; Marjorie Graham and Tressie Norton by Judy and Jim Norton
  • Bob O’Neill by Mary Jane O’Neill
  • James H. Pierce by Karen Pierce
  • Loved ones by Ralph and Diane Powell
  • Our grandson Maximilian Craig by Carol and Craig Rains
  • Andrew J. Ramsey by David Ramsey
  • Richard Mosely by Kathryn Riso
  • Our parents George and Isabel Gingras, Robert and Beverly Ryan by Mary and Bob Ryan
  • Schuler, Lynne and Carrie Ulrich by Sally Ulrich Sarkisian
  • Jane Scott Sasser by Martha Sasser
  • Norman H. Schlemm, Jr by Rose Marie Schlemm
  • Jim Shelhorse by Jane Shelhorse
  • Harrison Simpson by Claire Simpson
  • Robert A. Smith by Peter and Judy Smith
  • Our loved ones by Bob and Pamela Thompson
  • Margo Valentine and Virginia Wilkins by Suzi and Ian Valentine
  • Kitty & Doug Quarles; Phyllis & Ferris Wafle by Kitty Lee and Ben Wafle
  • Tim Waltonen by Jan Waltonen
  • Robert W. Washington, III by Sharon Washington-Kohler
  • Nancy Heyward and Marion Rambo by Chip and Kathryn Willis
  • Frank and Alma Fines and William Withers, Sr. by Billy and Alma Withers
  • Howard V. Yarus, Jr. by Joan Yarus
  • Jim and Barbara McDonald by Jane Yaun

In Thanksgiving for: 

  • In gratitude by Wayne and Tina Bell
  • The Table by Rita Cavataio
  • Bill Cheatham by Iris Cheatham
  • Our children and their spouses; Tug and Kathryn Coker, Lindsay and George Dickinson and Lorie and Bryan O’Neal by John and Linda Coker
  • Our grandchildren; George IV, Susanna, Bo, Quinn, and Kannon by John and Linda Coker
  • Life and Health by Ray Crafton
  • Our children Kim and Brian and their families by Jack and Donna Creasy
  • All the Blessings of this life by Jacqueline DePaulitte
  • Anna Christy Bear by Scott and Mary Ellsworth
  • Aaron and Ethan Eshelman by David and Nicole Eshelman
  • Joanna, Scott, Maureen and Charlie by Mike Fray
  • Children and grandchildren by Lewis and Susan Graves
  • St. George’s and the technology that keeps us connected by James and Linda Grigsby
  • Lily Guerin, June Guerin, and Margot Guerin by Jane and Newton Guerin
  • Our children and Grandchildren by Bill and Julie Harris
  • C. Mason Hearn, Jr. and E. Arrington Mixon by Martha Hearn
  • St. George’s clergy and staff by Bill and Cindy Helton
  • In gratitude by Malanna Henderson
  • Beth and Terry Dorn by Gloria Lloyd and Bob Seward
  • First Responders, Scientists, Healthcare workers, and Frontline workers by Rich and Margaret Martin
  • Our St. George’s Clergy by Jan and Tom Meredith
  • Emma and Sarah by Guy and Barbara Miller-Richards
  • Gerald and Mary Emily Morgan, David and Sabra Carter by David and Susie Morgan
  • FA’s Faculty and Staff by Karen Moschetto
  • Michael Houston and Gordon Jones by Miriam Parsons
  • Joyce Beschta by Karen Pierce
  • St. George’s ministries by Gamal Soltan
  • My St. George’s family by Anne Steppe
  • The One Body Response Team by David and Shirley Swisher
  • Our loved ones by Bob and Pamela Thompson
  • St. George’s by Peggy Verdine
  • People who wear masks by Linda Vinnedge
  • Colin West and Thomas Sykes by Hilary and Louis West

In Honor of:

  • Surviving All 2020 Sent Me by Jessica Atkinson
  • The tireless members of St. George’s staff: Amy and Lisa Bogardus, Danielle Davis, Ben Hicks, Emily Hoell, Achim and Laurel Loch,  Jan Meredith, Barbara Miller-Richards, Riley Mullen, Hecti Musa, Nicholas Perron, and John Vreeland by Pamela and Charles Bullock
  • Kellie Anne Acors by Scott and Mary Ellsworth
  • St. George’s beloved staff by Joe Hensley and Sarah White
  • Our parents, Charles and Tricia McDaniel, and Rick and Teri Hinkebein by Jordan and Chris Hinkebein
  • Our family, biological and church by Jim and Vicki Lewis
  • Our St. George’s staff by Jan and Tom Meredith
  • Linda Miller, Linda Carter ,and Chris Cook by JoAnne Rose
  • Paris Swisher by David and Shirley Swisher
  • Our loved ones by Bob and Pamela Thompson
  • Frances and Beatrice Wafle Hoffman by Kitty Lee and Ben Wafle
  • Healthcare Workers by Jennifer and Mathew Whitehurst
  • Edith Withers by Billy and Alma Withers
  • Jeanette H. Yarus by Joan Yarus 
  • Everyone doing the next best thing by Jane Yaun

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Epiphany At Home Worship

December 22, 2020 by St. George's 1 Comment

Epiphany is January 6, 2021

It has been tradition for many centuries to bless the home at Epiphany, to celebrate a new year, and to ask God’s blessing upon those who live, work, or visit in the coming year. It celebrates the deliverance of the Israelites at Passover, and the visit of the wise men at the Epiphany.

In this season of pandemic when so many of us are experiencing our homes in new, beautiful and sometimes challenging ways, may this sacred pause give us an opportunity to remember God’s presence with us and to ask for God’s blessing. 

We invite you to pick up some blessed chalk by our fence in front of our graveyard on Princess Anne Street to write the year and words of blessing on the lintel over the entryway to your home. The traditional form is 20 + C + M + B + 20 (the year with the blessing inside). The letters stand for Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar, the traditional names of the wise men, and also represent the words of blessing: Christus mansionem benedicat, “Christ bless this house.” 

Click here to view a leaflet for the blessing service

Click here for videos to use as part of the blessing

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Advent 2020 – Let There Be Light

November 23, 2020 by St. George's Leave a Comment

This Advent, we wait for the birth of the Messiah: our unfailing light. We’ll seek a love that dispels the shadows of night. We’ll follow a star and trust that it shows us the way. We’ll proclaim that God has the power to make us new each day.

Here are some ways to help you seek the light of Advent:

Advent Practices Brochure

A Sanctified Art Advent Calendar

Way of Love Advent Calendar

Praying in Color

If you have questions about Advent and how you might get involved, please fill out the form below. If the form isn’t displaying correctly, please click here.

 

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