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Annual Meeting and Combined Worship Service

December 18, 2018 by St. George's Leave a Comment

Sermon for the St. George’s annual meeting December 9, 2018. The Rev. Joseph H. Hensley, Jr.

Annual_Meeting_2018Let me quote the apostle Paul as he wrote to the Philippians in the reading we heard earlier: “I thank my God every time I remember you.” Good morning beloved St. Georgians. I thank our God when I remember you and when I remember all the ways that God is at work in our midst. And I say with Paul, “I am confident of this, that the one who began a good work among you will bring it to completion.” God is up to some good work at St. George’s. Thanks be to God. Thanks be to you, beloved parishioners, for all the ways you are cooperating and participating with God in this place. It’s been almost four years since I began my work here as your rector, and still, I thank my God every time I remember our community and our ministry. It’s good to be here. Can you turn to your neighbor and tell them, “It’s good to be here?”

The text that I would like to focus on this morning is a text from both Luke’s Gospel and the prophet Isaiah.As Luke describes the appearance of John the Baptist who is preparing the way for Jesus, Luke quotes the prophet Isaiah writing several centuries earlier: “The voice of one crying out in the wilderness, prepare the way of the Lord.” Prepare the way of the Lord. We are in the season of Advent, the four Sundays leading up to the feast of Christ’s incarnation, God becoming human. We often say that it is a season of waiting. Waiting for Christmas. Waiting for Christ to enter the world. Waiting. We also say that Advent is a season of preparing the way.Note that several of our music selections today include the phrase: “prepare the way.” This is our season, as we are waiting, to also be preparing.  

Since this is the annual meeting Sunday, I have a few things to say about the parish. I am preparing to do that!And so let me get there by talking about preparing the way for God. This time of the year, we talk a lot about preparing for the holidays. Are you prepared for Christmas? I’m not even fully prepared for Advent and it started last Sunday. The answer really is “no,” I am not prepared. Because when people say,“are you prepared,” what they really mean is “are you ready? Are all your plans in place?” Let’s just say I’m planning to get my plans in place. But let’s go back to Isaiah for a moment.

The word in Hebrew that Isaiah uses to say “prepare” has a different meaning from “get ready.” The word has more of a meaning of clearing. Clear the way. Prepare the path by clearing it of obstacles, smoothing the rough spots, filling in the potholes. So there is,perhaps, a difference between preparing and planning. Planning is buying presents and putting up decorations and making food. Preparing is clearing sometime in the calendar just to sit in God’s presence. Planning is putting things in place. Preparing is making space. Planning involves stocking up. Preparing involves cleaning out. Planning is important, don’t get me wrong. But I think the call of Isaiah is to clear the way, to prepare for the coming of God by making time and making room for God to enter our world. So during this Advent season, we take care not to let our planning overshadow our preparing. For it is when we prepare, when we clear room for God, that God can show us things we could never begin to plan for.

So now I would like to shift into talking about the parish, and I want to talk about St. George’s both in terms of planning and preparing. Both are essential. Let me begin by saying that we do not have enough time in this sermon or in one annual meeting to tell the story of everything we have done in the past year and everything that we are looking ahead to. The vestry and I are “planning” to offer a more complete annual report of 2018 early in the new year, once this year is complete. Be prepared for it!

Planning and preparing. We planned in our budget at the beginning of 2018 to hire three staff members, one new position and two expanded roles. We ended up hiring seven people. Our initial plans did not involve our associate rector, Gay Rahn, retiring or our director of children’s formation and outreach, Carey Connors, going to seminary. Nor did we foresee the opportunity to partner with Christ Lutheran and Trinity Episcopal to hire a young adult missioner. But we were prepared for these opportunities, because we had made some room, both materially and spiritually, for God to do some new work. So, in order of their arrival this year, we welcomed Parish Administrator, Laurel Loch, Parish Secretary, Barbara Miller-Richards, Facility Manager, Riley Mullins, Table administrator, Katie Wendt, Young adult missioner, the Rev. David Casey, Associate Rector, the Rev. Areeta Bridgemohan, and Director of Children’s and Youth Formation, Hecti Musa. Thanks be to God we have an incredible staff of 15 that works so hard and so well to support our ministries and to empower our parishioners to focus on their ministries. As another way to help parishioners plan and prepare for their own ministry, the vestry also put into place a new commission this year,the “connections commission” whose mission is to help connect parishioners who want to get involved with ministries that can use their gifts. As you prepare to get more involved, see the “help wanted” page on our website, and look for upcoming invitations from the connections commission. Part of our preparing and planning in the coming year is going to be calling some new leaders so that current leaders who are ready for a break can step back while they still have energy to give. Although we have a beautiful building and facility, it is the people who gather and minister, work and worship here every day that make St.George’s a church where we can grow and then share God’s love. It’s the people who are the church.

A church with the amount of people and activities that St. George’s has needs a dedicated and skilled staff to provide consistency and stability so that volunteers can have what they need to succeed. To be transparent, staff costs are the majority of our budget expenses. This year, we managed to minimize a deficit budget by reducing staff expenses during some significant gaps of time when positions were unfilled. We plan to begin 2019 with our full staff and will not have that same wiggle room.

We are able to hire this wonderful staff and fund all our ministries through the generous support of parishioners. I often say that the finance meeting is one of my favorite meetings because it reminds me of your generosity. The spreadsheet numbers represent your faithful and consistent gifts. Finance is often a “planning”meeting for sure, but it is also a preparation meeting. In those meetings we often have to remember to clear away our negative thinking and prepare a way for God to show us what is possible. Your gifts, gathered together, have showed us what is possible, over and over again. We have grown since I arrived in 2015.At some point, we might say, “haven’t we gotten big enough?” But then more and more people want to join our parish. Our amazing volunteer leaders hear God calling us to respond to more needs in the world. We want to prepare for what God is going to do next right here. To be frank, growing in ministry means growing in giving. Back in September, Bishop Bob Ilhoff asked some of us to think about giving not until it hurts but until it feels good. Give until it feels good. Part of how we prepare the way of God is by clearing away our hesitancy and offering as much as we can with joy. I believe our parishioners together have the resources to fully fund and even to exceed our needs for the coming years.I know many are already giving a very joyful proportion of their gifts to St. George’s. Many of us, though, could consider offering to God a more joyful proportion. This would enable us to even more joyfully share the ministries of this place, to share the welcoming love of God.          

There’s more to say, and my time is growing short. As I said, we plan to offer a complete picture of 2018 early next year, from pastoral care to Christian formation, from home communion visits to forums about wholeness, from grace in action locally to mission around the country and world, from the Table in Fredericksburg to Notre Dame in Haiti, from worship and music to fellowship and hospitality, from deaf ministry to newcomers, buildings and grounds to finance and stewardship, from care for God’s creation to time, talent, and treasure; from St. George’s preschool to St. George’s Catechesis of the Good Shepherd to St. George’s youth, from Youth in Global to Glory Ridge, from young adult community ministry to ecumenical and interfaith partnerships, from racial reconciliation to evangelism, from our first annual “round up” storytelling event to our 300th anniversary in 2020-2021. For now, I want to share one last thing about our planning and preparing.St. George’s is planning and preparing for me to take a sabbatical break next summer. My departing Sunday will be the parish picnic on June 2 and my returning Sunday will be the rally for service Sunday September 8. The theme of my sabbatical is “rooted in wholeness” which was our theme for the Shrine Mont parish weekend in October and for our adult forums this fall and next spring. I am excited to share that I received a generous funding grant from the Lilly Foundation to support some travel and retreat for me and my family and also to support St. George’s in several ways during my absence. I truly hope this time will be a time of preparing the way of the Lord, of clearing away obstacles and smoothing out rough edges. In this season of Advent, I hope each of us can find some mini-sabbaticals, some times to rest, slow down, and listen so that we can prepare to receive God who is coming into the world.

In a few minutes we will cast ballots to elect four new vestry members. As I bring this message to a close, I ask us to set aside our plans for a moment and simply prepare. Prepare our hearts to listen for God’s guidance. God is already at work: in our parish, in our neighborhood, in the world. How is God inviting us to be part of that wonderful work of love and welcome, of grace in action, of giving and receiving? Now is a time in the life of our parish not only to plan but to prepare. Prepare the way.    

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St. George’s Offers Haiti Benefit Concerts on New Year’s Eve

December 14, 2018 by St. George's Leave a Comment

St. George’s Episcopal Church will offer New Year’s Eve Concerts to benefit the Notre Dame Parish and School in Port-au-Prince, Haiti. The evening begins with an organ concert by St. George’s five organists at 8:30 pm, followed by the best in jazz, funk, and Latin jazz with St. George’s Jazz Ensemble at 10 pm.

Admission is free with donations accepted at the door. Hot cocoa, bottled water, and baked goods will be available for sale as well. All proceeds help support the 383 schoolchildren of the Notre Dame Parish and School with food, clothing, supplies, and medical care.

For more information, contact (540) 373-4133 or concerts@stgeorgesepiscopal.net. To learn more about St. George’s concert series, visit www.stgeorgesepiscopal.net/music/concerts.

Filed Under: Giving, Grace in Action, Music, Music at St. George's, News Blog, Parish Life, World Mission Tagged With: concert, music

Register for Chime Choir!

December 13, 2018 by St. George's Leave a Comment

Children grades 3 – 8 are invited to join our Chime Choir! Rehearsals are Mondays from 4:30 – 5:15 p.m. in McGuire beginning January 7. Contact Lisa Bogardus for more information.

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Filed Under: Children's Music, Music, News Blog, Parish Life, We Grow Tagged With: chimes, music, parish life

Youth Winter Trip Information

December 6, 2018 by Leave a Comment

Help us to keep this event affordable
We have purposefully kept the cost very affordable for this full weekend of events to allow all youth the opportunity to join us in this very popular weekend. This is a tall order, as there many costs that go into making this event a successful one.

To help the youth group fund not become depleted before the end of this year, we are asking families to assist with meals. We will soon have a sign-up which Emily Hoell and Hecti Musa will disseminate. The sign-up list will provide the needed items, which will be easy ones, such as chili, spaghetti, taco ingredients, soda, juice, etc. Please consider assisting with this. If everyone donates a mere couple of items, we would have all major meals covered. This then frees up money for other events while there. Thank you so much!

Youth Registration and Cost
Registration: Deadline is Dec 31 and deposit is $100

Total Cost: $155, remainder to be provided prior to departure.

House Information
Good news! We have acquired the St. Andrews House after seven years of trying. We will no longer be in the Hillside House, which is far smaller. This new house is gigantic!

High School House

House: St. Andrews house

Youth Capacity: 18

House Youth Leaders: Two Youth Leaders

Middle School House

House: Meade house

Youth Capacity: 18

House Youth Leaders: Three Youth Leaders

Lodging Details
Bedrooms have two beds, some queen, double and twin. Youth will be sharing rooms. All youth need to bring a sleeping bag, however, as some will be in beds and some will be on mattresses on the floor. All rooms are arranged appropriately by gender. There will be some overflow as necessary in large living spaces with mattresses.

Overall Rules and Boundaries
Specialized dietary requirements or allergies must be sent in advance. There is nowhere to get them once there, so please let me know soonest.
There will be a zero tolerance level for all unchristian type behavior. This includes rudeness, bullying, inappropriate language, conversations or gestures and anything else deemed unchristian by leadership. If the behavior of any youth becomes an issue, parents will be called and they will have to come and retrieve their child.
There will be no pranks or loud activity after midnight. This is lights out and all activity will be contained within the cabin and within individual rooms.
There will be no fraternizing with others in a promiscuous manner while on the trip.

Offered Activities while at Shrine Mont
This is a Winter Retreat, not a ski trip, so please do not think that because your youth does not ski that they should not come. We have enough leaders to accommodate several winter activities as described here.
Hiking to North Mountain, the Cross, Big Schloss Mountain
Shenandoah Caverns
Movie in Woodstock, Va
Hanging out reading and playing games
Bonfire and Marshmallows
Skiing
Snow Tubing
Bryce Lodge for live music Saturday night
Sledding
Movie Night
Other

Snow Tubing and Skiing
The cost of skiing is an additional expense over and above the cost of the trip. Please check the resort website for cost details. It is cheaper to purchase tickets online as well, but you can also purchase them there.
Those who do not wish to snow tube need to let me know in advance of the trip so I know how many tickets to purchase, as this event is paid for by the church.
All youth must purchase a lesson with their lift ticket unless a parent note is received to state that they do not require a lesson. A package with lesson and day lift pass is pretty reasonable.
All skiers must rent a helmet or bring their own.
Skiers may bring their own equipment.

What to Bring
Every year, this does not get read by some and youth come unprepared. Please read and ask any questions you may have.
Sleeping bag, pajamas
Pillow
Winter clothing
Bathroom bag
Book
Spending money
Personal snacks
Hiking shoes

Ski equipment – Limited space

Itinerary

Friday Jan 18
5pm (Faulkner Hall): High School Scout Party will go up in the evening to do groceries, stock houses and prep houses for guests. This is purely voluntary and the rest of the high school youth will come up on Saturday with the rest.

Saturday Jan 19
7am – 8am (Faulkner Hall): Pack Van and Leadership/Parent/Youth Review of all contained within this email

8am – 11am: Travel to Shrinemont

Rest of Day: Events begin

Sunday Jan 20
Myriad of events

Monday Jan 21
Return to Faulkner by 2pm

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Annual Meeting 2018 Details

November 29, 2018 by St. George's Leave a Comment

St. George’s will gather for its annual meeting to elect the next class of vestry members on Dec 9 at 10:00 a.m. in the church nave at a combined meeting and worship service. There will be no 9 or 11:15 services. We will still hold the 7:45 and 5:30 services but voting will only occur at 10. The meeting and service are open to everyone.

Why are we shifting to a different format this year?

The main business of the annual meeting is electing four vestry members for 3-year terms. Our Episcopal church canons (laws) require us to “elect” vestry members. Many of us have struggled with this process as it means some people are chosen while others may feel rejected. Selecting church leaders is rightfully a spiritual discernment of whom God is calling, not a popularity contest. Conducting the election in the context of a worship service will set a more prayerful mood. Last year we offered voting opportunities at all the services. This was really stretching the limits of how the Diocese expects us to conduct the election. We will only vote during the 10:00 a.m. service and meeting this year. And again, I hope that it will bring an enhanced sense of discerning God’s will together.

The canons stipulate that only registered members of the parish, in good standing (actively attending and financially contributing) are eligible to vote. If you are not sure if you are registered, please contact the church office asap. We operate the election on the honor system. If you are not eligible to vote, we ask that you participate by praying during the election portion of the service while others fill out their ballots.

By combining the meeting with our principal worship service, I hope that we have a greater sense of participation as a whole congregation than we have had at separate meetings in Sydnor Hall. I encourage as many people to attend as possible from all the services so that we can see and pray with one another. Some have expressed concern that the children in the service may get restless. We will provide a special activity for kids to do during the announcements which will be somewhat extended but not too much. We are spreading out elements of the meeting throughout the service, so that it will flow along. There will also be fewer reports as we have had at other annual meetings. My hope is to have a meeting in February 2019 to give a true “annual report” of 2018.

As always I welcome your feedback and ideas. As we try a new thing, I pray God blesses our meeting and gives us wisdom and grace as we worship and give thanks for St. George’s and the opportunities we have to serve, care, learn, pray, give, and grow together.

Your rector and brother in Christ,
Joe+

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